Motivate yourself to be more optimistic. It increases confidence and flexibility but at the same time prepare it to leave negative emotions like fear hatred jealousy revenge. You will be in the mood to travel and spend money- but you will be sorry if you do. Your problems will be serious- but people around you will not notice the pain you are going through-Probably they feel it is none of their business. Try to control your speech as your harsh words can mar the peace and perturb the smooth pace of the ties with your sweetheart. Health of your spouse may keep you worried. Your ability to act swiftly to problems will bring you recognition.